
What is Healthy Sexuality?
During my work in public health at the Centers of Disease Control, I had the opportunity to research the effects of Healthy Sexuality as a prevention mechanism for violence against women.
At Boulder Professional Women's (BPW) Young Careerist competition, I spoke about the elements of Healthy Sexuality, defined as:
Knowledge and positive expression of
-Sexual Health and Reproduction
-Intimacy with self and others
-Gender
-Sexual Orientation
-Body Image
-Pleasure
To listen to a 4-min. talk on this topic, please tune into my YouTube channel.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wvgWkokLgek
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Learning Each Other's
Love Language
Great sex starts with conversation in the kitchen.
Or in the dining room, or laundry room, or over appetizers at the Med.
For couples to thrive in the bedroom, they need to be able to communicate their needs, wants and desires before they even take off clothes. But talking about sex is not an easy task.
Let's start by introducing Gary Chapman, author of the revolutionary book The Five Love Languages. Whether you have been together two months, two years, or two decades, relationship success — in and out of the bedroom — will depend on how well you can speak each other’s love language.
Couples come together because they have an innate chemistry, or they share interests, or someone gets pregnant, or it was an arranged marriage. The impetus is irrelevant. Staying together and making it work is what matters. So how can we build love, deepen love, and translate that love to the bedroom?
We start by learning to speak each other’s love language.
Read more at The Boulder Weekly: Sophisticated SEX: http://www.boulderweekly.com/article-2364-learning-each-others-love-language.html
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